Expectations
We have a family motto: my word is my bond. Mostly ,I think because none of us disrespects anyone enough to lie: treat others as you would have them treat you.
But maybe it gives you unrealistic expectations. Maybe others do not appreciate when they lie.
I recently had a case where I took someone who was in need at their word and gave them a big helping hand. They made three promises when they accepted that help and kept not a single one of them.
When it came to withdraw the favour because they were hurting my property, and ultimately my family, they made a last promise. As of mid-night, they have reneged on that too.
I feel completely let down.
Did I expect too much from someone who claimed to be my friend?
Posted: July 3rd, 2013 under 42.